It’s not too late for love
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In the quest for true love, it's easy to feel disheartened and doubt whether it will ever happen for you. The fear of running out of time and the belief that others can find love but not you can be overwhelming. These limiting beliefs can hold you back from the love you deserve. But the journey to finding a fulfilling relationship starts with staying open to the infinite possibilities that life offers. By addressing your inner wounds and practicing self-love, you lay a strong foundation for attracting and sustaining a healthy relationship. Visualize your future partner and affirm your own worthiness and readiness for love. Healing past traumas and preparing yourself internally are essential steps toward finding and keeping the love you seek. The first step is to understand and accept yourself fully.
Start believing in the infinite possibilities. Talk to your future partner in your mind. Know that you are both getting prepared for each other and that you deserve the greatest love. Visualize this partner and feel their presence. Affirm to yourself, "You are out there, and I love you already. I love you, and you are there. I know that you’re looking for me also. I know that we are getting prepared for each other. I believe in you. I believe in me. I believe in us."
You have the wisdom because of the experiences you've lived through and the lessons you've learned along the way. You’ve faced challenges, navigated difficult situations, and come out stronger on the other side. Now, you're going to apply this wisdom and this knowing, the evidence that you have always landed on your feet, that you're always okay, that you always figure it out. Like everything, the universe always delivers to you what you need. You have evidence of that. So think about this: inside of you are different parts. And you know that because you have felt that, you know it right. So this is what I'm saying: you have to talk to that other part. I want you to visualize what this other part of you looks like. She’s probably different ages. She's afraid, she's young. This part of you is young. She's scared. She hasn't matured yet. But she's still running the show. She's operating this particular part of your life, but she doesn’t have the experience that other parts of you have—those parts that have gone out, experienced success, and aren't afraid to put your best face forward. So, you need to go back to her and talk to her because she’s afraid and uncertain. She doesn’t have the experience yet. She only knows the experiences she’s had, and she will keep creating the same experiences based on what she knows. That's what she's doing. She's just creating what she knows how to create. So, you have to talk to her.
You must create a dialogue with your inner child. Try saying things like, "Listen, baby, my love, we've always been okay. You’re going to learn everything's okay. Trust me on this." This is an energetic process that requires presence and a desire to heal. When experiencing the pain of this wounded part, continually offer reassurance with phrases like, "You’re safe. I’ve got you. I’m going to meet your needs."
It's crucial to embody this younger part of yourself. When you’re in the wound, when she is present—because she’s not always present—talking to her will help. This practice is essential and should become a regular part of your self-care routine. Use specific affirmations that speak directly to the wound, such as, "You are desired. Someone is going to love you and cherish you, just as you are, with all that you have been through. It is not going to be too much. You are not too much for somebody. You are not unattainable."
Speak very specific medicinal words, as only you know the things you truly say to yourself. When in the wound and pain, it’s a vital time to see what’s there. It’s painful, like holding fire, but stay present to hear the words she’s speaking. Then, counter those words with new affirmations. This process is rich and transformative, allowing you to reprogram and heal deeply.
The next part of the practice is to start believing in the infinite possibilities. Start talking to your future partner. "Know that you are out there, and I love you already. I love you, and you are there. I know that you’re looking for me also. I know that we are getting prepared for each other. I believe in you. I believe in me. I believe in us." You have to feel it. You have to keep reminding yourself, "No, it is true. I have not been everywhere. There is more for me. This is not the end. This is not it." You talk to yourself until you hear yourself and believe it. Just like people might not get it at first, parts of you are not going to get it at first. Then, over time, you have to trust, be patient, keep working with yourself, and not give up on choosing to believe in the infinite possibilities.
It's essential to understand the importance of persistence and faith in the process of personal growth and healing. Stay committed to the journey and continuously reinforce your belief in positive outcomes, even when it may be challenging.
Open up. Believe. "I believe. I don’t know how it’s going to happen. I don’t know when it’s going to happen. I don’t know when I’m fully going to believe it, but I’m here, and I’m going to do my best." Keep showing up. Keep showing up for your heart. Having high standards in love and relationships is perfectly acceptable and justified. Your standards are not too high. You are a queen. You are whole. You love deeply and have so much love to give. It’s not too high of a standard to want to be respected, to want to be made love to, to want to be loved, cherished, and adored. These are not excessive desires; they are your birthright.
Recognize that your desires for respect, love, and adoration are legitimate and not excessive. You deserve to have these because you are worthy. Embrace your self-worth and understand that you deserve to be treated with the highest regard. Your desire for a fulfilling, loving relationship is valid and you should never settle for less.
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