Unconditional love doesn’t mean that there are no boundaries in place. It means you love yourself and those you’re placing a boundary with, so much, that you are willing to enforce that boundary so that the learning or awakening that is supposed to occur as a result of the boundary can take place.
In a drive towards a 50/50 society where women fight to rise out of the ashes of the oppressed sex roles of the past, we have traded in our innate qualities of intuition, sensuality, and seduction, to adopt the more masculine attributes of left brain thinking, competition, and determination.
I hid behind the script and created an entirely different persona that appeared happy and full of life. I deflected and projected and for years and functioned remarkably well in this trance-like way. What no one knew is that I felt dead inside and because of this I attracted dead relationships that further depleted me and contributed to the separation I felt from myself, including my body and from others.